The Finicky Female











Hedwig and the Angry Inch is a story about a young, beautiful East German boy whose mother castrated him in order to get him out of East Germany. How, do you ask? As a sudden “woman,” he was wed (again, arranged by his mother) to a homosexual, paedophilic American GI who happened to lurk around the Berlin wall in search for some “candy”. Abandoned by his GI husband, Hedwig starts a band, makes it big in the trucker-filled 24-hour diner circuit and eventually falls in love with a young folk guitarist named Tommy. The precocious and manipulative Tommy become famous through Hedwig’s compositions, and eventually eclipses Hedwig in the fame department. At the end of the film, we find Hedwig walking naked, androgynous, into a dark alley, neither homosexual nor heterosexual, but just as he is.

He ends his part on screen in search of someone who will love him just as he is.

In Breakfast on Pluto, young Irish actor Cillian Murphy plays a transvestite in search of his mother, who supposedly looks like a famous ’50s film star. In the end, he does find his mother (and father, too), but chooses not to reveal his identity to her. His karmic reward, however, for not “rocking the boat” so to speak, is suddenly acquiring a family.

The heterosexual transvestite finds two people who shall love him just as he is.

Any woman wants to be loved just as she is.

And Bridget Jones is a lucky britch.



{April 30, 2006}   The dance of the east

A few months after giving birth to my daughter, I decided to get out of the house for a few hours on Saturday afternoon to attend a bellydancing class here. My back suffered from chronic pain, and I wasn't about to drown myself in painkillers the whole time.

After four sessions, I felt flexible again. Perhaps I should sign up for a new class again.

More on the art of belly dancing. Here's an article enumerating its health benefits per muscle group. Here's another article that discusses a study conducted at the University of Worcester about its health benefits.

I would like to post an article illustrating how belly dancing prevents sciatica, as soon as I find it online. 



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